2020. május 22., péntek

Temples dedicated to erotica


We have already mentioned in an earlier post about India and the Kama Sutra, the holy book of sex and love. Let’s now dwell on this topic again and some of the strange temples in India that have sex positions in the Kama Sutra. India has one of the few “age-restricted” parts of the world heritage, the Khajuraho temple group.

Khajuraho is a village in the Indian province of Madhya Pradesh, approx. 620 km southeast of Delhi, the capital of India. The churches here are approx. It was built in 100 years between 950 and 1050 AD. Of the original 80 Hindu temples, only 22 remain in their original condition. They are currently spread over a total of 21 km2. Hundreds of statues depict different positions of lovemaking on the walls of the church complex.
These temples have a spiral structure, adhering to the traditions of North India.

India has been extremely conservative for the past few hundred years: some of the Islamic dynasties, some of the British colonizers, and some of the priestly caste of the Hindu religion have had great but similar significance. But this was not always the case! Previously, in the 13th Century, sexual norms were much freer. It is quite astonishing to man today that sex was a school subject and we find engraved memories of this on the walls of the Khajuraho temple group.

At first glance, the superficial observer sees completely ordinary decorations on the walls of the temples. However, if we take a closer look at them, we can see that they are extremely erotic depictions: triple sex, orgies, homosexuality, good-bodied people satisfying each other in impossible poses while divine beings stare at them with a smile. Like a stone carved ancient hardcore porn movie! These engravings are in very good condition, compared to the fact that we are talking about temples more than a thousand years old.
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There are several ideas as to why this kind of representation was so popular. Some say that the members of the Chandela dynasty who built the church group were following tantric principles, and this is reflected back in the temples. Others say that the temples had a different role than they did now: they were also important places for learning, and therefore, of course, they also provided a place for learning to make love. It is also true that the depiction of sexual activities was quite simply a good omen, as it symbolized new beginnings, new lives. And there is also the spiritual explanation: in the loving relationship of the Supreme and human, the expression of love is only seemingly ordinary. The attraction of the Supreme and the pure human soul is free from all physical and material aspects. And this attraction is also depicted in the engravings of these temples.

2020. május 15., péntek

History of Sex, Erotica, and Pornography XI. - The Italian Renaissance and the Age of the Courtesans


In the 15th century Europe, erotic thoughts and deeds were believed to hinder one's redemption. The church and the morals agreed that sex was needed, but only to create offspring and populate cities, not for fun! Sex had its rules, such as that the "natural" position is when the man is over. If the couple faced each other lying side by side, that was an acceptable category. One of the most disgusting was when the woman was over. Only Sodom was judged better than this. It is, therefore, worth examining the social and cultural background that gave birth to the above rules.
For most Italians, the problem was homosexuality. As in ancient Athens, adult men played the active role, young boys the passive. A crucial moment in the transition was moving from one situation to another, and then when men were "adults," there was heterosexuality within marriage. However, if two adult men continued to have sex with each other, it suggested that this could not only be a temporary state. Still, it could also be permanent and dangerous to society. Hence the admiration of the young body, but the adult male has already lost its appeal.
To overcome male homosexuality, the larger cities - Florence, Venice, and Milan - encouraged female prostitution. But since the beginning of the 13th century, brothels have operated alongside markets to promote attraction and marriage to women. It was almost a civic duty to express a desire for a female body, the ultimate goal of which was procreation and thus the population of cities.
Venice in the 15. century
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A 15-16. century a new word appeared in Europe: the courtesan. The Italian names il cortegiano and the French le courtisan referred to people who were courtiers. The attractive women who appeared in their surroundings and were supported by them began to be referred to as courtesans. In the Renaissance, the courtesanwas sharply separated from ordinary prostitutes. The courtesans were wealthy and educated, able to talk about Petrarca's sonnets with equal expertise, singing beautifully, playing on the lyre, dancing, and being very versed in the art of love as well. That's why they cost a lot. They lived respectable lives and spent their days among the upper strata of society, aristocrats, wealthy merchants, and chief officials. They were clean, elegant, good lounges, or just neat businesswomen. They could play an instrument and sing, and they could entertain men.
The life of Veronica Franco (1546-1591) of Venice, who was also the lover of two Renaissance painters, Jacobo Tintoretto and Paolo Veronese, is well known - as it was also made into a film. She spoke in seven languages, played the flute, and wrote poems. She was a cortigiana onesta, meaning an educated and sophisticated prostitute. Even she also had an affair with  Henrik III., King of France (1574-1589).
Veroniva Franco
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Many courtesans became known by the name of their hometown, while others preferred names referring to power. It was widely believed that an educated courtesan was far more dangerous to young men than a cheap and poor prostitute because he sold his favors so dearly that he could ruin more young nobles.
Most cities have tried to persuade prostitutes to wear garments that differentiate them from decent women. There were cities where they had to wear a red cap with small bells, elsewhere they had to wear a black cloak, and in Rome, they were forced to veil their faces. And they didn't need better marketing. Their appearance immediately betrayed their occupation, and the potential knew they didn't have to run unnecessary laps.
Tintoretto
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The first Renaissance erotic literary work appeared at about the same time as Giorgone painted his Venus. 
the sleeping Venus
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At the beginning of the 16th century, Giuliano Romano made a series on various sexual postures: he depicted the most forbidden, i.e., women are at the top of the pictures and men penetrate their women from behind. Interestingly, however, it was not the drawings that were the problem, but the fact that they were widely distributed. They were also confiscated and destroyed by papal order.
Duality related to sexuality was characteristic in several areas. For example, while patrician families kept the innocence of their girls, the boys may have been taken to the local brothel by the heads of families themselves to learn from experts what to do on their wedding night. Another interesting fact is that the secular authorities made every effort to regulate prostitution, year after year, in more and more regulations. At the same time, the city authorities were motivated to keep the brothels alive and profitable, because the owners of the brothels were required to pay one-eighth of their income as tax.
Thanks to this dual attitude, then, prostitution flourished in Renaissance Italy. This practically meant that there was at least one brothel in every city and more in the larger cities. It is said that in 1468 there were more than 200 such institutions in Venice, and a tenth of the inhabitants of the town were prostitutes!
For brothels, a few streets were set aside in most cities. But in Rome, for example, they had a whole quarter of the city at their disposal. Whoever gave himself up a bit worked in the brothel. The brothels were two-story houses with an inn at the bottom where you could eat, drink, dance, meet ladies. The store was tied downstairs. The action took place upstairs, where it was separated by planks and curtains in rooms. Most of the ladies working in Italian brothels were blonde Germanic and Slavic girls who were found particularly attractive by local men.

2020. május 13., szerda

The story of Sex, Erotica, and Pornography X. - the Middle Ages 2.

Read about the Middle Ages here!
 Troubadours and brothels
Everyone in the medieval literature knows the troubadour songs, in which a knight begs the beloved lady in bile. Still, there was no chance that the relationship would become a reality.
a troubadour
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Troubadour poetry in the XII. started from the southern French nobility of the 16th century. His main feature was that the poet always writes his songs to a married woman. The point was that the husband himself was not fit for love: he could not love his wife, could not bile for him, could not court him. The main reason for this is that in the Middle Ages, marriage between nobles was a simple property transaction arranged by the parents, the young people to be married had no say in it: money married with money, land with land, and so on. Emotions played no role. Also, the purpose of marriage is to birth, a child who has inherited the family property. So the husband cannot feel anxiety and torment, which is one of the essential components of troubadour love. The chief virtue of knights in troubadour love is patient humility, with which he endures the torment of a woman adored from afar.
The ideal lover
A true hero-loving knight is humble, kind, attentive, making sure everyone has a good opinion of him. The knight avoids profanity and rudeness. The ideal lover can earn the mercy of his lady if he patiently bears the spiritual pains. The essence of this love is the constant threat and uncertainty, where suffering and true love belong together. The troubadours even compete with each other to see who suffers better. A true lover is very discreet, and he would never reveal where his love affairs are. According to the troubadour songs, the lady may have rewarded her persistent knight. But what that was, the knights did not reveal much about, because, as we know, they were discreet. One possible reward might have been the sight of the beloved woman’s naked body, and the other was a kind of love test that we could best describe today with the word petting. The lady allowed the man to lie next to her after promising that she would behave following the requirements of moderation.

a knight
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Moral superiority
A XII. It was an everyday reality in 19th-century France that in noble families, the firstborn son inherited the property, and the other boys were either given to a priest or served in a nearby castle lord and remained wealthless. That’s why they couldn’t even think of marriage. So they needed something in which they could be more than and rich above the wealthy knights — at least morally. And that was pure, Platonic love. However, he formulated the sexual overheating of knights in literary form. It also drew a sharp line between nobles and citizens and peasants who mated in the “animal way.”
Marriage as a sacrament
However, based on many literary works - Boccaccio, Villon, Chaucer - it can be thought that the whole of society was obsessed with sexuality.
Boccaccio
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A XII. century, the church made marriage a sacrament, and sex between spouses served to create the blessing of children. Everything else was considered sinful fornication. If the woman did not give birth to a son, the husband often confused her: she gave her to a convent, “proved” infidelity, adultery, or found out a “kinship” she had not yet guessed at the time of the marriage. However, if the wife had indeed cheated on her husband, many medieval customs were awaiting her death - unless the husband himself had done so before.
Brothels, baths, and rape
The poor and unmarried knights found relief in brothels. Despite early medieval prohibitions and severe punishments, prostitution was introduced in the XI-XII. Century lived its heyday. Organized prostitution has been recognized as the strongest guardian of marriage because it protects married women from the seduction of unmarried men and provides young men with an opportunity “without consequences.” The importance of brothels was even acknowledged by St. Thomas Aquinas as a necessary evil.
There were brothels in every city where, according to their social rank, budget, and taste, everyone found the woman they liked. There were brothels for the ordinary people, and especially for the gentlemen, which could be used with certain moral and hygienic rules (prayer three times a day, ban on the admission of virgins and married women). Prostitutes over the age of 30, mostly married and often became respected mothers and virtuous matrons.
The brothel accessories were complemented by the medieval bathhouses, where nudity was allowed, and the bath girls were happy to fulfill all the wishes of the guests. An XVI. however, from the 16th century onwards, the church increasingly complained that men and women, honorable women, and prostitutes bathed together so that the bathhouses were soon closed.
Rape was a usual custom in the eyes of medieval youth. Every second young urban man took part in such action at least once in his life at the age of 16-26. Most of the violence took place in public. The authorities did not punish their activities either, because young people often singled out their victims in the role of “moral beaker”: women who were already in bad news: priest lovers, widows, adulterous women, foreign female visitors. The violence was often introduced by cat music held under the victim’s widow. Then a team of 4-15 people broke into the house and raped by the whole company, accompanied by harsh punches and loud whips - it was a peculiar medieval ‘gangbang'.

The story of sex, erotica, and pornography X. - The Middle Ages 1.


The Christian Church became increasingly influential and in the Medieval period. By the middle of the third century, it was increasingly accepted by society and politics.  Around 400 AD, it began to develop a new system of sexual rules that focused on the concepts of holiness and purity. It took two approaches to sexuality.
One did not distinguish between sexual relations between men and women or between men and women. Instead, it condemned the act itself and supported Platonic relations. Interestingly, the legal relationship that has survived from the Roman tradition, in which one man recognizes another as his brother, has survived until the early Middle Ages. The formal marriage did not exist in Christian communities, but long-term relationships were characterized by commitment. Besides, several poems suggest the existence of lesbian relationships, even in areas where homosexual relationships were not recognized in the XII century. Until the end of the twentieth century, it was common in Christian beliefs that the same norms judged homosexuality and heterosexuality.
XIII. century in France
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By the end of the Middle Ages, most Catholic parishes and states had accepted and lived the belief that sexual behavior was the so-called under natural law it was aimed at reproduction. And according to them, inappropriate sexual acts, i.e., oral and anal sex as well as masturbation, were found guilty. However, homosexual acts were considered a crime, and most civil law codes punished these “unnatural acts,” especially in regions where the influence of the church was strong.
For example, In the XIII. century in France, homosexual behavior between men was punished for the first time by castration, the second time by limb slaughter, and the third time by burning participants. For lesbian acts, the first two sets of body parts could be severed, and the third time they could be sentenced to death by a bonfire. In the middle of the XIV. century, civil laws criminalizing homosexuality appeared in many cities in Italy, and the city government was entitled to confiscate the perpetrator’s property.
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The depiction of homosexuality in the arts appeared in the late middle age or new age. In the Renaissance, Latin and Greek influence revived in Europe. The “neo-Latin” poets once again portrayed men’s love in a positive light.
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History of Sex, Erotica, and Pornography IX. - Byzantium 2.


Promiscuity
In Byzantium, rulers, aristocrats, officials, craftsmen, soldiers, and even slaves had sex with several partners. 
Byzantium
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Many either switched partners or had relationships with several partners at the same time. But promiscuity was not unique to men. At this time (6th century AD) almost every woman lived a strange life. The husbands listened for different reasons. Some couples lived in open marriages, in other cases there was an insurmountable social difference between the woman and the seducer, and it was also common for the husband to benefit from his wife’s infidelity. Sometimes the woman was looking for another sexual partner because of the man’s impotence. But the number of extramarital lovemaking did not decrease later. Empress Zoe was recorded to sometimes hold two or three lovers at a time, in addition to the palace servants and the male employees. 
Empress Zoe
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Often the ladies knew about each other, living in the environment of their lords without jealousy. The Vikings appeared en masse in the 10th century AD, and their frequent childbearing is indicated by the fact that in the areas of Asia Minor and Palestine to this day, around 20% of the population are light-haired and eye-colored. The huge army, extensive tourism, official travel and missions, fueled not only prostitution but also promiscuity.
Some cultural historians derive the term “cuckold husband” from Byzantine customs. For the emperor endowed the aristocrats with hunting grounds for the service of their wives, and the man happily pinned to his gate the sign of the ruler's gift, the antlers. Other times, the wife remained near the palace and her husband was appointed head of distant landscapes. Merchants, sailors, ambassadors, officials, etc. they traveled for months, years. It is understandable that both the traveling men and the women who stayed at home were looking for new partners and prevented pregnancy with effective contraceptives and procedures.
Rape was common. He was initially sentenced to death, but later the punishment was milder. If a married man had violent intercourse with another wife, he received twelve whips and fines. The verdict was more severe if the violence took place on a nun or a priest’s wife. Adultery, even if voluntary, was also punishable by twelve whips. The unmarried man received six whips for the same reason. If the man knew but did nothing about his wife’s outbursts, they both had their noses cut off, whipped, and exiled.
Pedophilia
Roman law (which, with minor modifications, was also applied by the Eastern Roman Empire) set a minimum age for marriage, considering girls to be twelve and boys from the age of fourteen. Byzantium it was overlooked if the mature man married a girl under the age of 12, but with the passing of the covenant, he would have had to wait until the child reached the prescribed age. This rule was often violated, some directly, others because parents set their children older. Little is known about pedophilia among the common people, but we know a lot of examples from ruling families. Children raped under the guise of marriage, or their parents, could turn to the patriarch, who examined the girls with midwives, and if the violence was proven, the marriage was dissolved. The man was not punished for the mutilation in the marriage, at most, the marriage was declared null and void.
The phenomenon of pedophilia has traversed the entire Byzantine era. It was common in men in large cities (especially Constantinople) to rap children of children in both the upper and lower classes. 
Constantinople, the Forum
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In the 5th - 7th centuries AD, parents did not dare to let their children go to the streets alone because they could become victims of sexual violence even on a clear day. The rulers were free to riot, but the guilt of their subjects was severely punished. The verdict varied from age to age: walking down the street, cutting off the nose or penis, wasting, fining, exile, and beheading in blatant cases. Church dignitaries were no exception to pedophilia. Justinian later passed a law banning pedophilia, with retroactive effect: the perpetrator of a child of any gender was confiscated, his property (in favor of the treasury) confiscated, and so the rapist of the nuns was punished. Justinian also founded an office to prosecute pedophilia and corner prostitution, headed by a quesitor who investigated and sentenced. Inexplicably, the victims of rape were also punished by being imprisoned or sent to a monastery. The church excommunicated the victim over the age of 19.
Not only the girls, but, to a lesser extent, but the boys were also exposed to sexual violence. According to the hermit who marched into the solitude of the desert, the child is an even more diabolical trap for monks than women. There are plenty of records that talk about the relationship between steppe ascetics and boys. Homosexual aristocrats forced money on the act with money, other benefits, violence. It often happened that an aristocratic slave bought children and used them to satisfy his homosexual desires. A recurring concern during the 1,100-year history of the Eastern Roman Empire is the vulnerability of boys, who have been threatened by many gay men.
incest
This term refers to the sexual relationship and possible childbearing of close blood relatives. This could not have been rare in Byzantium either, for laws and ecclesiastical provisions return to the punishments of incest. In the case of incest, anal intercourse was a more serious sin than “natural” sexual intercourse between family members. The family kept such events secret, even if it turned out that it happened with the knowledge of one or the other spouse. During the existence of the empire, the small number of cases that came to light was always punished with headaches, and the church declared incest marriages null and void. The best-known incest case is from the Imperial House. Despite loud protests from the church and even the common people, the widow married Heraclios, a fourteen-year-old daughter of her sister, 610-641 AD, Martina and gave birth to ten children. But the blood relatives avenged themselves, several of their offspring were born with severe developmental disorders and died in infancy.
Heraclios
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The incest also appears in the steppe hermit. But in Egypt, for example, where there was a centuries-old tradition of brotherhood, it was not taken strictly in the 4th to 5th centuries AD.
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History of sex, erotica and pornography IX. - Byzantium 1.


Prostitution
There were plenty of prostitutes in Hellenic society. At the top of the hierarchy were the heters. The Eastern Roman Empire adopted this Greek practice, but by the Middle Byzantine era, it had changed. Byzantium was barely educated for an upscale week, but the lower two classes of meretrixes worked in all cities.
Byzantium
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The upper class of Byzantine joy girls included actresses, flute and musician girls, circus stuntmen, acrobats, and the famous - not necessarily educated - professional courtesans. They almost equated actresses (singers, acrobats, etc.) and prostitutes, believing that theater was a hotbed of seduction because of the actresses ’behavior, face and hair coloring, naked body, and defiant demeanor. This later became the official position of the Orthodox Church. The “actresses” mainly satisfied the visitors of the performances, but they could also be rented for occasions and banquets. As a garment, they wore a translucent muslin dress in which the naked body could be seen. The most famous theatrical lover was Theodora, who was a child prostitute and then rose from there to the rank of Empress as the wife of Emperor Justinian.
Empress Theodora
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Prostitution was spread mainly in the cities. Plenty of men gathered here, away from their wives and families, so there was a great demand for sexual services in these cities and a huge number of professional joy girls were available. In the capital, more than ten thousand sold themselves in the 6th century and thirty thousand in the 10th century.
 "Individual prostitution"
After the 4th century, more and more pilgrims arrived in the Holy Land, and this led to the spread of prostitution in Jerusalem, along the Jordan River, and in the Judean Desert. The lower strata of individual prostitutes offered their bodies in squares and baths. Because of deprivation and starvation, they were greedy, sometimes violent, stealing their clients. Those who received men in their own homes were in a better position - they were the “middle class” of individual prostitutes. The girls' apartment was often a single room in the busiest part of the city and there were 5 to 10 clients a day.
 Non-professional “individual” prostitutes pursued their businesses out of lust or financial need, such as women working in inns and pubs. They supplemented their earnings with work, or vice versa: their main activity was prostitution, they “officially” did other work (also) to cover it up. And women craftsmen and small clerks often increased the family’s income through sexual services.
"Institutional prostitution"
The scene of this was a brothel formed in Roman times. Residents of the brothels were considered “official,” all the other girls were just corner prostitutes. Corner prostitution was tacitly acknowledged by both the state and the church. In almost every city, there was a close connection between the brothel and the spa, some baths focused on prostitution, which is why decent people avoided them. Men went to these for the sake of the girls. At the entrance to several baths was this inscription: “Come in and enjoy”. We even know the operating rules of some brothels. The variable number of meretrixes (prostitutes) operated under the supervision of the madam (mostly an aging and somewhat enriched prostitute). She and her servants protected the girls against their rude clients, but the girls were obliged to follow her instructions. In some brothels, the girl was allowed to reject one applicant at a time. The Byzantine government soon recognized the business potential of brothels. It0 taxed them and even appointed an imperial inspector to inspect them. The rulers at times tried to contain, to reduce prostitution, with little success. The laws treated prostitutes with “gloved hands”: they did not consider their activities a crime, but they wanted to regulate traffic.
"Steppe" (between hermits) prostitution:
Another significant arena for the activities of prostitutes is the field of steppe hermits and penance. Monastic life and prostitution went hand in hand. According to the records, it could be believed that there was a constant struggle between the slaves and the monks: the former tried to seduce the hermits, but they wanted to get the prostitutes on a good path. about adultery thoughts and the prostitutes who tempt them. One of the other hermits was served by a young “virgin,” and her surroundings whispered that a sexual relationship had developed between the old man and the child girl. Some monks have been accused of harassing street girls. Prostitutes almost constantly haunted desert fathers, young and old alike. Often the hermit could not resist and enter into a relationship with the prostitute.
But female penitents were not free from a sexual desire either. A hermit named Sarah was "fiercely attacked by the spirit of fornication for thirteen years." There is also evidence that the hermit lady had regular intercourse with other atoners, one or the other having a child. With the decline of hermitism, steppe prostitution “disappeared” with the Arab occupation of the affected areas. A VII. After the 16th century, there were few hermits in the mutilated Empire, and prostitution could no longer be established in the monasteries that had been established at that time. We are also aware of countless “coeducational” monasteries, but the relationship between a friend and a nun cannot be considered prostitution. Then the XI. In the 21st century, women, but even females, were banned from their territory and this rule was introduced in the 21st century. century.
Male prostitution:
Since Roman times, a list has been drawn up every year of professional prostitutes of all ranks and ranks, men and women alike. There were also plenty of male brothels in ancient Rome. Emperor Theodosius, I banned male prostitution, dismantled their houses in the western half of the Empire, exiled and executed male ringworms, and abolished male brothels in Rome. In the Eastern Empire, Constantine I taxed male prostitutes and thus impunity their brothels, which had operated for more than two centuries. Finally, Justinian the Great closed them in 533. The man banned prostitution and punished all kinds of homosexual acts with death. However, it can be assumed that not only female prostitutes but also men continued to work in the larger cities, in secret. In part, the testicles came from among young people, on the other hand, those who slipped to the periphery of society earned their money.
Justinian the Great
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Child prostitution
The saddest part of prostitution, which was not at all a rarity in the Empire. Even among Egyptian hermits, little girls were spoiled. In Roman times, the price of boys was higher, but in the Byzantine period, the emphasis shifted to girls. Empress Theodora herself began her career as a child prostitute. Despite all the prohibitions, the poorest sections of society often sold their 5-7-year-old daughters for prostitution. Justinian banned child prostitution in 529 AD, but until the fall of Byzantium, there was ample supply, as many poor, miserable families lived in the capital and the countryside. It was also common for pedophile men to buy little girls and keep them in their houses until they were adults. As soon as they became a mature woman, they were thrown into the street (brothel), and few could start a decent bourgeois life, start a family. The majority of child prostitutes ended their lives between the ages of 18 and 20, living longer, often becoming infertile due to their childhood injuries, and numerous abortions, most of whom suffered from chronic trippers and other sexual distresses.
The "supply" of prostitutes
The number of prostitutes has never decreased. Some of the abandoned, orphaned, the wandering child ended up in brothels. Most child prostitutes continued their crafts as adults. There was no other way to survive before some of the women who had been expelled or fled the villages. The majority undertook to sell their bodies due to starvation. Before the turn of the millennium, many “investors” bought beautiful young slave girls, forcing them into prostitution, gaining considerable profits. The vast majority of those who lived out of their bodies were unable to change their destiny, although in Byzantium they accepted former street girls who had converted to a decent life. Few (about ten to twenty percent of them) managed to break out, get married, raise enough money to start a civic occupation, or work in the public silk industry or manufactories. Sometimes, in addition to their civilian occupation, they continued to work as casual prostitutes. Some started or continued prostitution with the knowledge and consent of their husbands. But quite a few of the street girls “converted,” stood as hermits, or marched into a monastery. The age of prostitutes was barely over 20-30 years, but there were exceptionally those who understood 60-70 years, and some remained active in old age, but most died in shelters or monasteries.
Neither prostitutes on the street nor in brothels were required to undergo a medical examination, and they did not claim to do so on their own. The infection sometimes spread epidemically, with the street girls passing the disease to their partners, those to their wives, and they to their lovers. 10 to 15 percent of the Byzantine population was barren, largely as a result of sexual distress.
It was typical, that the Church Fathers equated prostitution with contraception and therefore forbade the prevention of pregnancy. According to the Orthodox Church, prostitutes and their clients are punished by God with leprosy. But prostitutes are aware of a method (s) by which they can get rid of the fetus. We don’t know exactly what they did, but their activities have often been effective. The power knew about the illegal miscarriage, but he did little about it. In Byzantium (under certain circumstances) abortion was allowed, legally precisely regulated, and subject to conditions. Prostitutes mostly did not take advantage of legal abortion, although the intervention was free. If neither the prevention of pregnancy nor the miscarriage was successful, the unwanted newborns were killed, at best, exposed in front of a church, monastery, orphanage, or simply on the street.
Let's continue the history of the morally degraded Byzantium!

2020. május 11., hétfő

The story of sex, eroticism and pornography VIII. - Mysterious China


Gender has always played a major role in Chinese thinking and society. However, the recognition of sexuality has gone through great ripples throughout Chinese history, from unscrupulous writings and depictions to quite harsh prohibitions and prairies.

The Forbidden City, the symbol of the ancient China
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In China i.e. from the 5th century onwards, Confucianism began to take over, defining the morale of the literate class. This is also the reason why in Chinese antiquity, there is little trace of eroticism or pornography in written sources. Confucianism proclaimed strict principles regarding sexuality, defined the role of women in society and within the family, as well as the behavior expected of them, which is constrained to such an extent that it made it completely impossible to portray eroticism.
Confucius ’morals were so shy and prudent that he did not mention the sexual side of the relationship between the two sexes in his main work, Conversations, and Sayings (Lun Yu). In ancient times, writing about bedroom stories was a social taboo. Nevertheless, some eroticism appeared in high literature.
Interestingly, however, the artistic formation of love is strikingly lacking in ancient Chinese literature. A contradictory example of this statement is the first large lyrical collection supposedly written by Confucius, the Book of Songs. The form known today is i. e. It dates from the 2nd century, but most of the poems can be proved much earlier (10th-6th centuries BC). The Book of Songs contains a total of 305 poems, part of which is a folk song, the other part a folk song, a song of praise, an anthem, or ode. All were performed during the ceremonies, probably sung by a choir and accompanied by a dance. From them, the customs of love, courtship, and marriage can be learned.
Confucius
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Incidentally, the Chinese far refrained from touching each other in everyday life and generally regulated their physiological functions with great self-control. The men made sure their clothes covered their entire bodies. However, peasants and manual workers were exceptions to this. In the case of women, this was even stricter, even the women condemned to do so were only woven through their clothes.
Interestingly, public breastfeeding was not considered obscene in women. Also among women, we can find the thousand-year-old bizarre tradition of foot bandaging. This tradition first spread to the rich in northern China. A rich woman didn’t have to work, so they tied her legs and so she couldn’t work anymore. The tied foot was thus a visible symbol of wealth, it was a shame if a rich woman had a normal-sized foot. On the other hand, women became virtually immobile, unable to travel alone, only by car or escort. Men could thus be more sure that their wife would not cheat on them (because she could not solve it), for the children she gave birth to, she was indeed their father. This habit then slowly spread to other levels of society, except among the poorest. The tied foot was a sexual symbol, the most erotic part of the body for women. These golden-lotus-shaped legs, shrunk to 7.5 cm, have become symbols of beauty, status, and femininity. 
symbol of beauty in the ancient China
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To live their sexual fantasies, men could see prostitutes for money, ash them, use their bare feet to satisfy their desires. They made tea from their wash water, to which they attributed a special, healing power!
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The story of sex, eroticism and pornography VII. – The Ancient Rome 2.


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Rome was an extremely masculine, or "macho" society. Unlike the Greek world, the Roman male ideal was based on the following pillars: virtue, masculine honor, self-discipline, humility, patriotism, family loyalty, and respect for ancestors. That was the virtue. This was emphasized in their tombs by the great families of Rome. In the ancient Greek world, predominantly sexual positions for women (retro, tergo - today's doggy-style) were prevalent, whereas in the Roman era women preferred sedeo, incurvo.
Prostitution
Almost every ancient Roman city had a brothel. These usually worked legally, with the permission of the aedilis ("law enforcement officer"), and here the meretrixes (the "prostitute") could work. Pompeii is the most well-known example of the everyday life of prostitution: nearly a hundred prostitutes - men and women - are known for their names, services, "abilities" and prices, but there are many portrayals. Prostitution was legal, but there were strict rules: a Roman citizen could not be a prostitute, a married woman or a man could not prostitute. The meretrix had a specific toga (toga mulieris). Completely naked, they rarely depict women, most of them wearing a bra-like band.
a roman courtesan
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However, there were tragedies in the lives of prostitutes: in 1912, dozens of baby graves were discovered at a brothel. Archaeologists speculate that prostitutes had to kill their children.
Pederastics and adult love for men
The Romans, because of the main pillars of the Virtue, tolerated only certain forms of pederastics (an adult male's erotic relationship with a 13-17-year-old boy). An adult Roman citizen could only sleep with a slave boy, and only the active role was accepted. The inclusive, passive role was unworthy of a Roman citizen. However, Marcus Antonius and many Roman emperors, for example, were suspected of having a passive role. The best-known pederaster in the Roman world is related to the name of Emperor Hadrian and his lover, Antinous.
Hadrian
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All forms of sexual relations between two Roman men have been prohibited by law in Rome since the Republic. But there are many "me too" stories from antiquity when prestigious Roman soldiers or citizens abused young boys or adult soldiers by abusing their power. One of the most scandalous cases is Gaius Lusius. He had been harassing Trebonius, a young man famous for his beauty, for a long time. The harassment resulted in a young soldier stabbing and killing Gaius Lucius one night. Then, in a lawsuit, he was told the truth, and he was honored.
There are many erotic stories about the Roman emperors, such as the "fish" (children) lurking in the Emperor's Tiberius basin, the orgies of Caligula, Nero's female attire, and her passive role in bed. Their credibility is rather uncertain, as they were usually created after the death of emperors and were part of enduring campaigns.
Caligula
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Sex and archeology
The Romans' sexual habits are known primarily from works of fiction, imperial biographies, ancient dramas, and prose. However, there are numerous archaeological finds: mainly from Pompeii and Herculanaeum.
Herculaneum
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The archeology of the brothel houses and their rich source is outstanding: phallic hangers and candlesticks were present in the houses mainly because of their magical power and protective role; the phallic columns and reliefs on the houses marked the brothel.
At the same time, brothels feature frescoes, special beds, depictions of women's dresses, and even sexual aids (dildos). Some of the Roman bronze vessels with erotic scenes are known. Some of the candlesticks and molds decorated with erotic scenes were funerary items. It has likely been brought to the afterlife as a message of lust and zeal for life.
The history of Roman sexuality is an extremely complex subject that fills libraries. But there are also some misconceptions: the history of Roman sexuality is often confused with the history of Greek sexuality and is presented in a much more liberal way than it was.
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The story of sex, eroticism and pornography VII. – The Ancient Rome 1.


Sex and eroticism played an important role in the history of ancient Rome.  
model of ancient Rome
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The word porn itself comes from the Latin word porne, which means prostitute, and if you add the word graphie (drawing), the genre of pornography is done.
However, the attitude of the ancient Roman citizens towards sex was controversial. On the one hand, there were officially strict moral standards on the life of society. On the other hand, Roman history is full of rape and orgies. Sexual perversions by emperors and their families were a favorite theme in antiquity.
Typically, men were not expected to have a high degree of purity in their sexual life. Society expected Roman women to be obedient and healthy, with as many boys as possible. However, the husbands could easily go to brothels and have a single lover
Married men could have sex with other men without shame. However, this only applied to the penetrating man, because the passive role was considered to be a female role, and the man who took such a role was considered and despised.
Sex between men was accepted with some restrictions, but not among women, because the woman who penetrated was male, which was severely punished for a woman.
Emperor Augustus, who came to power in the last years of the republic, believed that the morals of the Romans who had a relatively free sex life should be improved. 
Augustus
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Even though he was no stranger to adultery, he regularly spoke out against it and enacted strict laws to steer the Romans on the right path. It's funny that her daughter, Julia, was one of the freest morals of her time. Occasionally she had sex on the pedestal where Augustus used to talk about morals.
It was disgusting to wear clothes of the opposite sex and to perform accordingly. Julius Caesar, for example, has been accused throughout his life of living in women's clothes when he was in the court of IV. Nicomedes (king of Bithynia). 
Julius Ceasar
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And there he was a lover of everyone. Read about his role model, Alexander the Great, here!
Tiberius was also rumored to regularly wear women's clothes on Capri Island.
Tiberius
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Of the first Roman emperors, of course, the greatest scandals are attributed to Nero. Stories circulated that he had kicked his pregnant wife to death and had an incest relationship with her mother, Agrippina. It was also recorded that two liberated male slaves had also married them. For example, Sporus, a teenager, who very similar to Nero's late wife, was castrated and then regularly appeared as an empress on Nero's side.
Nero
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Also known were the notorious orgies of Emperor Claudius' wife Messalina. The Empress regularly escaped from the palace in the evenings to work in a notorious brothel known as "Lycisca". She once challenged one of Rome's famous prostitutes to a 24-hour sex marathon duel. Plinius noted that the Empress had won the competition by sleeping with 25 men in one day.
Messalina
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In the work "The Majesty's Stories" (Historia Augusta) we read about the "unspeakably disgusting life" of Emperor Heliogabalus. He came to power at the age of 15, and at the age of 18, he was the victim of an assassination. During his reign, for three years, he caused a scandal by trying to introduce an Eastern sun cult to the religious life of the Romans, placing the new God before Jupiter.
The young emperor was openly gay, but his perversions increased his unpopularity. He allegedly "used every opening of his body to delight and sent men to find men with the largest penis ... A man's genital size often influenced how high he was in the imperial court." Later, Heliogabalus went even further, offering a huge fortune to any doctor who would give him female genitalia.
Heliogabalus
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